This is arguably the hardest thing for fashion: finding the style that suits you and sticking to it. But how do we do it?
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We Ask Ourselves the Right Questions
It’s obvious, but sometimes we tend to forget it. A consistent style begins with an equally consistent definition: what type do you like? Which one attracts us the most and would be the most in line with our personality? Nothing could be simpler; we compose a mood board, mental or physical, by gathering all the photos that attract us. Fashion shows, actresses in movies or series, stars in the street. Everything is good to pick up to put your finger on the woman you want to be.
To Find Your Style, We Try!
Once we have identified what attracts us, we take the time to try. We recognize the key pieces of the looks that inspire us, and we take the plunge. We do not hesitate to spend several hours in the changing rooms of stores to try several associations. As soon as you feel that you have something, you buy it. Of course, there is room for doubt. And if a trend makes us want without being sure of ourselves, we allow ourselves a try at a low price. If it is conclusive, we will invest in an entire room to put the price. If it isn’t, this mistake won’t be the costliest in our closet.
We Are Not Afraid Of Making Mistakes
Finding your style can sometimes be difficult, and many mistakes are to be expected along the way. A skirt that is too short, pants that are too tight, a jacket that is too loose or too fitted, makeup that is too tight. So many little things that could disrupt our quest for the right look. But we don’t let ourselves be discouraged.
We Assume
When those around us are used to seeing you dressed a certain way, their reaction can be surprising to a change in your look. In short: we have become the center of attention. Only one thing to do in this case, take responsibility for your choices. Did we swap our pants for skirts? Yes, we wanted to, and we like it. Did we give up our sexy sheath dress look for something more androgynous? Yes, we had reached the end of a cycle. We accept compliments (it feels good), and we analyze the criticisms (it can help), but above all, we have confidence in ourselves.
We Trust Each Other
Being comfortable in your clothes is the main thing. Also, we allow ourselves to change all the details we want. The goal is not to look like those who inspire us, but rather to us, with all the small modifications that this entails: more or less jewelry, a hat, a larger or smaller or colorful bag, shoes flat, or with heels anything goes!
We Put Together A Beautiful Wardrobe
Once we have found our style, we invest in beautiful pieces. What is the essence of our new look? A dress? Trousers? A jacket? We identify the items that make up the basis of our new wardrobe. We allow ourselves to spend (always within our means) for quality: a beautiful coat that we will keep for ten years is better than a less expensive version that will have to be replaced every year.
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